Σάββατο, 16 Φεβρουαρίου 2013

A blah day...or not?


             Like the picture above, I wish that people would carry a neon sign that would say; ''I DON'T CARE!'' This would really save us from frustration and anger. So many people (including me) are giving themselves to the other person,and they receive back...breadcrumbs I dare to say? Why is that? I'm still searching for an answer... You start a whatever relationship (be it friendhip/business) with the best omens,and after few months (in same cases this could take years) things turn sour and go from ''wow!'' to ''ouch!'' Caring too much for the other person to a fault, maybe THAT IS the fault. 
                    On the other hand,if you seem that you don't give a damn about the other person,then you will be called ''aloof'',''cold'', ''in-your-own-world'',because then you will be soo much focused to your problems/work etc.,that you wouldn't care for them (insert puppy eyes here). Right? Wrong! What happens when YOU become a victim of such a behaviour? You do them favors,listen to their worries and advise them,but,alas if you start talking about your problems! Suddenly,there will be second line on their mobile, they will remember that they have to do an OH SO MUCH important thing (like cleaning their room. fail.),or the worst that I have ever heard, ''My favourite tv-show starts! I have to hang up/go offline!''Ah don't tell me! You will miss a sequence right? BITCH PLEASE! Do you think that I'm THAT stupid to actually eat it up? Ohh and for your information,now technology has made big steps,that you can actually find your fav tv-show over the Internet! Yes,all the episodes! How does it sound? Impressive huh?
                      So I'm sick of these people and I decided to cut them off for good. I care about them way too much,and I receive nothing.Sorry,but it's just not fair. A relationship between two people are builded upon take and receive. I'd rather be alone than having people in my life that don't respect me. Unfortunately,people aren't flowers to smell them and see which is a good one and which is a bad...
                    I realized this; Only people who are strong enough will stick by your side -the others are already searching for the exit. So choose wisely in order to save yourself from a heartbreak. Don't let anyone step up on you and make you feel sad! :)
                        
                     













Τρίτη, 5 Φεβρουαρίου 2013

For a better life...




             '' I want to fly NOW!!''(Aegean commercial).Yes,that's what I really want right now,to learn about new places,people,cultures...Erasmus in Turkey was only the appetizer..The main dish is yet to come...
                There comes a day,where you start to wonder; ''What have I done in my life? Do I have any regrets?'' Yeah I have many regrets in my life,mostly of things that for x or y reason I didn't do... And how it sucks! I count this as ''failure'',though I think each person has a different view upon this,for some it may be to lose your job or seeing your dreams falling apart like a deck of cards. All of them are acceptable,but what about your desires? Are you living your life the way you want,or others are projecting their views upon you? Everyone is different, what's the point of  telling someone how to live his life? How boring it would be if we were all the same! We just have to accept and embrace what's different,even if it doesn't match with our life philosophy...Live as you wish.
                Latins said it well; ''Carpe diem''. Seize the day! Don't let an opportunity slip away from you. You want to say something? Just say it! To do something? Do it! When you're young,you think you have all the time to accomplish things.Surprise! You don't. Time is running and you'd wish that there should be more than 24 hours to do things. Every day is a new experience, new things wait for us to be discovered,conquered. Work is not going anywhere,whereas life is ''flying''...
               In conclusion,we have to have a discussion with ourselves,or write things down and see who we are,what we need,and what counts most for us? It's high time to start LIVING,not only existing.